Autism and the Fear of Death: How to Drive Away Obsessive Thoughts?

The theme of the transience of life is a very deep one, and children usually don’t think about it. However, it only takes a small “push” for it not only to attract attention but to become dominant. For autistic individuals, obsession with the question of what death is can arise for various additional reasons—due to neurological features, anxiety, accompanying conditions, and so on.

1. “Special Interests” and Hyperfixation

Death can become a “special interest” because of its mysterious, structured nature, which offers intellectual comfort. Autistic individuals often fixate on topics to cope with anxiety or to achieve a “dopamine release” from deep study—a kind of reward for the brain. Unlike neurotypical peers, this fixation may seem excessive or grim, but it serves as a coping mechanism for existential uncertainty.

2. Anxiety and Catastrophizing

The brains of autistic individuals often build scenarios, predicting the worst possible outcomes. A high baseline level of anxiety, exacerbated by sensory overload, changes in daily routines, or social disorientation, amplifies the fear of death. This is linked to alexithymia (difficulties identifying emotions), which hinders the ability to contextualize fears.

3. Trauma and Existential Reality

Autistic individuals are at higher risk of premature death due to suicide, accidents, or comorbid conditions, and the awareness of such vulnerability, combined with experiences like bullying or the loss of loved ones, can intensify thoughts about death. These concerns are not entirely unfounded: research shows that autistic individuals die 2-3 times more often than their peers from preventable causes at a young age.

4. Comorbid Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)

Obsessive thoughts about death may reflect comorbid OCD, which compels individuals to repeatedly check if loved ones are breathing while asleep, for example. Unlike autism, OCD fixations are not aimed at gaining pleasure but rather cause distress and are linked to irrational fears.

How to Help a Child Cope with the Fear of Death?

To alleviate the fear of death, it is important to explain that it is a natural phenomenon.

1. Use Concrete Statements

• Avoid euphemisms like “passed away,” as they confuse literally thinking children. Death should be described logically, from a biological perspective: “The body stops working: no breathing, movement, or feeling.”
• Visual aids, such as social stories or diagrams illustrating life cycles, can be helpful.

2. Tools for Managing Anxiety

• Sensory regulation involves using weighted blankets, noise-canceling headphones, fidget toys, and other items that create comfort and reduce stress.
• Cognitive restructuring can be useful—creating charts to visualize fears, such as showing that if a loved one gets sick, doctors will help.
• To enhance the sense of security, maintain a predictable daily routine.

3. Discussing the Topic in Various Ways

• Encourage the expression of emotions through drawing, writing, or role-playing if verbalization is difficult.
• Social skills training improves the articulation of emotions, reducing fixation as the sole coping mechanism.

When to Seek Immediate Help

Immediate assistance is necessary when there are particularly troubling signs, such as:

• Suicidal thoughts expressed through phrases like “I want to disappear,” self-harm, panic attacks, and
• Deteriorating physical condition—refusal to eat or sleep due to fears of death.

Long-Term Support

Long-term support may involve:

• Creating safety by eliminating risk-related triggers such as bullying and sensory overload.
• Attending group sessions for autistic peers focused on discussing complex topics.
• Considering the specific nature of grief, which may manifest in “shutting down” or the expression of emotions later on, after processing feelings.

By distinguishing curiosity, anxiety, and pathology, parents can provide support that does not dismiss the child’s concerns as initially unfounded, while strengthening their psychological resilience. However, anxious thoughts may not arise or, at least, may not have such a strong impact if the condition is not influencing the state. Eliminating the condition and accompanying symptoms with the greatest reliability and speed today can only be achieved through cellular therapy, which has proven its safety and offers the highest level of naturalness.

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